October 6th, 2026
by Bret Lowery
by Bret Lowery
What the Details of Matthew 9 Teach Us About Faith, Healing, and Trusting God
Two miracles. One journey. And a level of faith that most of us have never fully considered. The story of Jairus's daughter and the woman healed of bleeding is one of the most layered passages in the Gospels. When you slow down and read the details, it changes everything
Why the Details in the Bible Matter More Than You Think
Every word in Scripture was placed there intentionally. When we skim past the details or treat familiar stories as background noise, we miss the deeper truth God is trying to show us. Reading the same story in Matthew and then again in Mark reveals layers that you simply cannot see from a single pass.
That is exactly what happens with this passage. Matthew 9:18-26 gives you the story. Mark 5:21-43 gives you the names, the context, and the depth.
That is exactly what happens with this passage. Matthew 9:18-26 gives you the story. Mark 5:21-43 gives you the names, the context, and the depth.
What Happens in Matthew 9:18-26?
A ruler approaches Jesus and says His daughter has just died. He asks Jesus to come and lay His hands on her so she will live. Jesus gets up and follows Him. On the way, a woman who had been bleeding for twelve years reaches through the crowd and touches the hem of His garment. She is healed instantly. Jesus then arrives at the ruler's house, dismisses the mourning crowd, and raises the girl from the dead.
Two miracles. One on the way to the other. And both of them require someone to break through fear, custom, and doubt to get there.
Two miracles. One on the way to the other. And both of them require someone to break through fear, custom, and doubt to get there.
Who Was the Ruler, and Why Does It Matter?
Matthew calls him "a ruler." Mark 5 gives us his name: Jairus. And not just any man. He was a ruler of the synagogue, part of the very religious establishment that opposed Jesus.
Think about what that means. This man likely had colleagues and peers who wanted nothing to do with Jesus. And yet, when his daughter was dying, none of that mattered anymore. He fell at Jesus's feet and begged.
There comes a point in life where it does not matter what anyone else thinks, what social circles you belong to, or what you have publicly said in the past. When you are desperate enough, you will do whatever it takes to find the one who can actually help.
Think about what that means. This man likely had colleagues and peers who wanted nothing to do with Jesus. And yet, when his daughter was dying, none of that mattered anymore. He fell at Jesus's feet and begged.
There comes a point in life where it does not matter what anyone else thinks, what social circles you belong to, or what you have publicly said in the past. When you are desperate enough, you will do whatever it takes to find the one who can actually help.
Sometimes You Have to Break the Custom to Show God's Glory
In Jewish tradition at the time, touching a dead body made a person ceremonially unclean. There was a whole process required before you could be around people again. Jesus was about to walk into a house with a dead child and touch her.
That was a custom He was willing to break.
And the woman in the crowd? She was considered unclean because of her bleeding. Touching a Jewish man in public could have gotten her killed. She broke that custom too.
Both of them, Jesus and this unnamed woman, were willing to step outside of what was socially acceptable because something more important was at stake. The same is true for us. There are customs and social norms in our culture today that keep Christians quiet about what God has done in their lives. The fear of being awkward, being judged, or standing out stops people from proclaiming what they know to be true.
That was a custom He was willing to break.
And the woman in the crowd? She was considered unclean because of her bleeding. Touching a Jewish man in public could have gotten her killed. She broke that custom too.
Both of them, Jesus and this unnamed woman, were willing to step outside of what was socially acceptable because something more important was at stake. The same is true for us. There are customs and social norms in our culture today that keep Christians quiet about what God has done in their lives. The fear of being awkward, being judged, or standing out stops people from proclaiming what they know to be true.
The Woman Who Bled for Twelve Years: What Her Story Really Looked Like
Let's put a name to her. Call her Ann. She was a real person with a real life before all of this happened.
What started as something that should have lasted five to seven days stretched into months, then years. Under the customs of the time, she was considered unclean. That meant no contact with her husband, no community, no social life. She was an outcast.
She spent everything she had on physicians. Mark 5:26 says she "had suffered many things from many physicians, had spent all that she had, and was no better, but rather grew worse." She was broke, isolated, and running out of options.
By the time twelve years had passed, this woman had likely accepted that this was just her life now.
What started as something that should have lasted five to seven days stretched into months, then years. Under the customs of the time, she was considered unclean. That meant no contact with her husband, no community, no social life. She was an outcast.
She spent everything she had on physicians. Mark 5:26 says she "had suffered many things from many physicians, had spent all that she had, and was no better, but rather grew worse." She was broke, isolated, and running out of options.
By the time twelve years had passed, this woman had likely accepted that this was just her life now.
What Does It Mean to Forge Your Faith?
Then she heard about Jesus.
That small piece of hope changed everything. She did not ask for an appointment. She did not wait for the right moment. She told herself, "If only I may touch His garment, I shall be made well." And she pressed through the crowd to do exactly that.
"For she said, 'If only I may touch His clothes, I shall be made well.' Immediately the fountain of her blood was dried up, and she felt in her body that she was healed of the affliction." - Mark 5:28-29
That is forged faith. Not passive hope. Not wishful thinking. A decision, made in the face of real danger, that Christ was enough.
If we had even a fraction of that kind of faith for the people we have been praying over for years, for the situations that feel impossible, it would change things.
That small piece of hope changed everything. She did not ask for an appointment. She did not wait for the right moment. She told herself, "If only I may touch His garment, I shall be made well." And she pressed through the crowd to do exactly that.
"For she said, 'If only I may touch His clothes, I shall be made well.' Immediately the fountain of her blood was dried up, and she felt in her body that she was healed of the affliction." - Mark 5:28-29
That is forged faith. Not passive hope. Not wishful thinking. A decision, made in the face of real danger, that Christ was enough.
If we had even a fraction of that kind of faith for the people we have been praying over for years, for the situations that feel impossible, it would change things.
Why Did Jesus Stop and Ask "Who Touched Me?"
He was surrounded by a crowd pressing in on every side. His disciples thought the question was almost absurd. "You see the multitudes thronging You, and You say, 'Who touched Me?'" (Mark 5:31).
But Jesus felt power go out from Him. He knew the difference between a crowd bumping into Him and someone reaching out in faith.
God notices when His children reach out to Him. Not out of habit or routine, but out of genuine, desperate, believing faith. He notices the difference.
But Jesus felt power go out from Him. He knew the difference between a crowd bumping into Him and someone reaching out in faith.
God notices when His children reach out to Him. Not out of habit or routine, but out of genuine, desperate, believing faith. He notices the difference.
Coming Before God Honestly, Not Just Conveniently
When the woman came forward, she fell at His feet and told Him the whole truth. She did not hide anything. She did not give Him a partial story.
There is a lesson in that. When we come before God asking for healing or help, we need to be honest about everything. Not just the symptom, but the root. Not just what hurts, but why. God already knows. Coming to Him honestly is not for His benefit. It is for ours.
There is a lesson in that. When we come before God asking for healing or help, we need to be honest about everything. Not just the symptom, but the root. Not just what hurts, but why. God already knows. Coming to Him honestly is not for His benefit. It is for ours.
Does God Always Say Yes to Healing?
Not always. There is a story of a man named Paul who had a thorn in his side and asked God multiple times to remove it. The answer was no.
Sometimes the hardship in your life is the very thing that keeps drawing you back to Christ. If He removed it completely, would you still come running to Him? That is a hard question, but an honest one.
We have a tendency to treat God like a spare tire. We pull Him out when we need Him, get back on the road, and put Him away again. That is not a relationship. That is using someone.
Sometimes the hardship in your life is the very thing that keeps drawing you back to Christ. If He removed it completely, would you still come running to Him? That is a hard question, but an honest one.
We have a tendency to treat God like a spare tire. We pull Him out when we need Him, get back on the road, and put Him away again. That is not a relationship. That is using someone.
What Happened When Jesus Arrived at the House?
There were flute players and mourners wailing outside. Jesus told them the girl was not dead but sleeping. They laughed at Him.
His response? He put them all outside.
He took only the Father, the mother, and three of His disciples into the room. If you are not willing to believe what God is about to do, you do not need to be in the room for it. That is not harsh. That is clarity. Unbelief has no place in the middle of a miracle.
He took the girl by the hand and said, "Talitha, cumi," which means, "Little girl, I say to you, arise." (Mark 5:41)
She got up immediately and walked. She was twelve years old.
His response? He put them all outside.
He took only the Father, the mother, and three of His disciples into the room. If you are not willing to believe what God is about to do, you do not need to be in the room for it. That is not harsh. That is clarity. Unbelief has no place in the middle of a miracle.
He took the girl by the hand and said, "Talitha, cumi," which means, "Little girl, I say to you, arise." (Mark 5:41)
She got up immediately and walked. She was twelve years old.
The Significance of the Number Twelve
The woman had been bleeding for twelve years. The girl who was raised was twelve years old. That is not a coincidence. The details in Scripture are placed there intentionally. Both situations had reached a point of what looked like the end. Both were restored by the same person, on the same walk, on the same day.
God does not forget the things that have been suffering the longest.
God does not forget the things that have been suffering the longest.
You Have a Mission, Just Like Jesus Did
Jesus was on His way somewhere when the woman touched Him. He had a mission. He knew where He was going and why. He did not let the crowd, the customs, or the critics stop Him.
Every person reading this has been called to something. There is someone who needs what you carry. There is something God has placed in your life that is meant to bring glory to Him. Do not let fear, social pressure, or the noise of the crowd pull you off course.
Every person reading this has been called to something. There is someone who needs what you carry. There is something God has placed in your life that is meant to bring glory to Him. Do not let fear, social pressure, or the noise of the crowd pull you off course.
Life Application
This week, identify one area of your life where fear or social custom has kept you from stepping out in faith. It might be sharing what God has done for you, asking for help you have been too proud to ask for, or pressing through doubt to believe God for something that looks impossible.
Do not wait for the perfect moment. The woman did not wait. Jairus did not wait. They moved toward Jesus with what little faith they had, and it was enough.
Ask yourself these questions:
"Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. For I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners." - Matthew 9:12-13
He is not asking for a perfect performance. He is asking for honest, humble, reaching faith. The kind that presses through a crowd just to touch the hem of His garment.
Do not wait for the perfect moment. The woman did not wait. Jairus did not wait. They moved toward Jesus with what little faith they had, and it was enough.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Am I treating God like a spare tire, only pulling Him out when I am in trouble?
- Is there something I have been asking God to fix while not being fully honest about the root of the problem?
- What custom, fear, or social pressure is keeping me from proclaiming what God has done in my life?
- Do I have people around me who are naysayers when it comes to what God can do, and am I letting their doubt shape my faith?
"Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. For I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners." - Matthew 9:12-13
He is not asking for a perfect performance. He is asking for honest, humble, reaching faith. The kind that presses through a crowd just to touch the hem of His garment.
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